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      <image:title>Blog - Watch / Read / Listen (February 2021) - To All The Boys I've Loved Before: Always and Forever</image:title>
      <image:caption>The third installment of Netfix’s rom-com trilogy based on the YA books by Jenny Han is a sweet, if predictable, ending to Laura Jean’s story. This is a feel-good movie, and you can’t help but root for LJ + PK (SPOILER ALERT: even if in real-life you don’t actually believe their relationship will survive 3,000 miles and four years of college). It’s the small stories that make this one worth watching, from Peter’s attempt at reconciling with his estranged father (Elliot from ET!!!), to Dr. Covey finally opening up to love again after losing his wife. Though not the strongest of the three, I still enjoyed it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rob Sheffield, a veteran rock and pop culture critic and staff writer for Rolling Stone magazine, wrote this memoir about losing the love of his life, and how music was present through everything. A wedding gift, this book is one of the few that remains on my bookshelf year after year. For anyone who treasures the value of a good mixtape, this story will not let you down.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Matt Maeson released this song in 2018, but recently added Lana Del Ray to the track. I’m sorry it took me a few years to discover, because this moody tune has been the backdrop of my February. Though a bit dark, I think it captures the feeling of despair pretty spot on, and I promise you won’t be able to stop singing it to yourself.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three Things That Work (February 2021) - 3. A-Ben-A-Qui Cleaning Paste!</image:title>
      <image:caption>I know we all have our favorite cleaning product but this stuff is unreal! It’s removed ink from my hardwood floors, permanent marker from my white quartz countertops, and all of the scruffs from our walls. It’s like the magic eraser but even better! Plus it’s nontoxic.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three Things That Work (February 2021) - 1. USB Rechargeable lighter</image:title>
      <image:caption>I know, I know- not another device to charge but this is definitely my new favorite toy. The charge lasts forever and it’s totally a must if you’re a candle lover.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three Things That Work (February 2021) - 2. Organic Toner Pads</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m loving these reusable toner pads I recently purchased. I hate adding unnecessary waste to our landfills and I’m trying to replace as many of the single use items in our home as possible. These are two sided with a smooth option and a more exfoliating texture and can be used to cleanse or apply your toner. And when you’re done with one you toss it in the included mesh bag and wash them with your whites.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three Things That Work (January 2021) - 2. Lululemon Wunder-Train High-Rise Tight 25'.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Lululemon products are generally very good, but these pants are next-level. They compress without too much compression, they can be used for working or working out, they don't roll down, and they don't pill. Over the course of the pandemic, I have acquired six pairs; this may make me sound like a very fancy lady but really I'm just trying to not do laundry more than once a week and I wear them every day.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three Things That Work (January 2021) - 3. Full Focus Planner.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I finally accepted in my 40th year, and after trying a variety of tech solutions, that both my big and small picture planning works better on paper. I'm now on my second of these (they last for a quarter) and is it hubris to think that I'll never do it another way? Some days are planned in detail, and some aren't; some days I use the full notes section and some days I don't; some days I use my perfect handwriting and some days I just slop my to-dos in there. But it has gotten some of the chaos that is inherent to being a working mom out of head and on to paper, which gives me a little piece of calm for which I am very grateful.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three Things That Work (January 2021) - 1. Peloton.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I get it, there's probably nothing more basic than being into Peloton right now, but it has been a transformational product for my family. I've always had a relatively regular exercise routine but my husband hasn't. Peloton has allowed for both of us to sweat regularly (so important to my mental health!), and from the comfort of home. But it has also given me so much fun: I've done cardio dance classes on the app with my 12-year-old nephew, laughed out loud to jokes from instructors while keeping up with the music all the kids are listening to, and I've worked out alongside my 70-year-old mom who hadn't been exercising before she got her Peloton. Having the bike is a luxury, for sure, but even just the app really delivers.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I LOVE to swing.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Boo loved this little area and would sit and stare out all day. He loves light, and will move toward it if he can. He WASN'T pleased I had him stand up, but having a mama is hard work!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Even if we are outside.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Looking spiffy if the first clothes that only belonged to me! His caregivers loved his fancy tie :)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Why does this dog keep touching me?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The place on the left is our apartments, and it was in a really great part of town. Vilnius is a beautiful city!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Playground with mommy! The first time they tried to put me on a slide, I flopped around and acted like i'd fall off. Just a couple weeks later, I showed off and pulled myself down!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It's WAY to early to wake up. Can you just dress me while I sleep?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Immigration selfie. The lines and wait were atrocious, but little dude slept in his carrier the entire time. Mama was d.o.n.e. at this point.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Freedom. And a beautiful spring day to boot.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My pajamas are really so cute, but I need another picture like I need a tooth pulled, so please give me some space lady!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I love a parade; The tramping of feet, I love ever beat I hear of a drum. I love a parade; When I hear a band I just wanna stand And cheer as they come!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In the apartment -- checking to see why I've taken a break spooning food into his mouth when he can clearly see there is still food in the bowl. Get it together, mama!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My first parade. Celebrating my country's independence the day after mine!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Silly mommy, you thought I was going to sleep on this 9+ hour flight?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Mama's helping me walk out of this place!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Very common high chair face. Still trying to figure this one out. But man it's cute!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Why do these people keep touching me?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>He finally, FINALLY, gave it up to the sandman.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Listen lady, plane or no plane, keep my belly full and everything will be all right!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Why does this girl keep touching me?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Also, when he's had enough, he kindly folds himself in half and goes to sleep. Ha!</image:caption>
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